The Signals
7 dimensions of compatibility.
Not all compatibility factors are created equal. Our algorithm weights each signal based on its proven correlation with long-term relationship satisfaction in academic literature.
Core beliefs about family, ambition, lifestyle, and what matters most in life.
How you process, express, and receive information in conversations and conflict.
Where you are now and where you're headed — career, family, location, growth.
Your capacity for self-awareness, empathy, and managing emotions in relationships.
Your underlying relationship patterns — secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganised.
Shared activities, hobbies, daily rhythms, and social patterns.
Respectfully, attraction matters. We include expressed physical preferences at appropriate weight.
The Process
From profile to match in 4 steps.
Profile analysis
We process your answers to all profile prompts using NLP to extract values, personality patterns, and communication markers.
Signal scoring
Each of your 7 compatibility signals is scored independently using trained models validated against real relationship outcomes.
Mutual matching
We only surface matches that score well for you AND for whom you score well — compatibility is always bilateral.
Ongoing learning
As you interact — liking, commenting, messaging — our model learns your real preferences and refines future recommendations.
Try It
A taste of the algorithm.
Answer 3 questions and we'll show you which compatibility signals matter most for your type.